Put A Smile on Your Face

My only occasional posting has less to do with lack of things to write about … but rather more to do with not enough time to write and too many things to write about. A million things were flashing through my brain that I would have liked to write about, but were zipping faster than I could catch them, and then … I was reminded of something that I’d seen on the web awhile back which never fails to put a smile on my face. It seemed like a good thing to share.

Need a smile? Watch this …

The Secret Garden – Frances Hodgson Burnett

The Secret Garden is a children’s book classic. It’s a novel written in 1911, pretty much at a YA reading level, based on vocabulary and complexity, but with a fairly simple plot, (told in extensive detail), of 10 year old children. I believe that The Secret Garden must be looked at as a piece typical of its time, and for many reasons I doubt it would be published today.

The main characters’ age would be looking for a middle grade or younger audience; the reading level required would be older still. A contradiction. In addition, the author is often highly critical of her own characters, and in describing them, does not engender empathy for them, but rather a dislike. It’s what the reader brings to the characters, I think, that makes them likable. And the detail … there’s an awful lot of it. I suspect The Secret Garden could be told in a fraction of it’s length. But such was not the writing of the time, and this story is nearly a 100 years old.

So what was the attraction in reading this for me?  First, I wanted to remember what it was about, as it was so long ago that I’d loved it. I still love the plot – the healing of two children, Mary and Colin, who suffered greatly through lack of love, and yet being utterly spoiled in their different circumstances. Their healing comes through the wonders of nature and a third child, Dickon, who is inextricably a part of the natural world. His relationship with animals and his understanding of all green, growing things is magical. I also enjoyed the location, the Yorkshire moors, and how Burnett shares the lives and language of the characters who reside there.

And I do so like Burnett’s message – that the magic that ultimately heals is not just the magnificent natural world around us, but the belief in the power of positive thought. Reading the story tells us so, but Burnett’s gem is briefly made clear in one small section of the story, where she reveals this to be the key to both Mary’s and Colin’s recovery from their physical and emotional ailments. “Much more surprising things can happen to anyone who, when a disagreeable or discouraged thought comes into his mind, just has the sense to remember in time and push it out by putting in an agreeable determinedly courageous one. Two things cannot be in the same place at the same time.”

The message of The Secret Garden, written a century ago, is as current and powerful as that of many books written today. It’s a bit of a long read, but a trek into an interesting life and time, and with an uplifting message and satisfying conclusion. However, I don’t know who its audience today might be.

November is PiBoIdMo!

Created and hosted by Tara Lazar, PiBoIdMo – Picture Book Idea Month – is a 30 day challenge during the month of November to come up with a new idea for a picture book every day of the month. This is Tara’s 3rd year hosting PiBoIdMo, and my first year of participating. I’m excited! I find I am already buzzing with ideas in my morning shower or while making coffee.

To participate, you are asked to take the PiBoIdMo pledge to record a new idea daily, (you’re on the honor system), and when you sign up at the beginning of November and end the month with a note of completion, you’re even eligible to win prizes, such as critiques with literary agents. Go, Tara! And …. when you are signed up to participate, you can also put this cool PiBoIdMo Pledge button on your blog.

PiBoIdMo, was inspired, by the way,  by NaNoWriMo, the November writing challenge for novelists, but this one is just for us picture book folks.

So go visit Tara’s site, read all about it, and if inspired you’ll find a link to sign up. But hurry – Nov. 7th is the last day to comment/sign up and you’ll have a bit of catching up to do.

Getting Too Caught Up

It’s so easy to get caught up in how much there is to do – how much work, how much running around, how much taking care of the kids or pets … how much, how much, how much. And serenity, inner peace, is out the window faster than a flash. Here’s where Monday morning often starts … already running with a mile long list of things to do.

It really is kind of depressing. We wake up and feel calm for about 2 seconds, then the to-do-list, the who-needs-what, comes crashing into our consciousness. How to stop this free fall of impending needs of others, our work, etc. that comes crashing on our heads so early? I do know the answer, but we really do have to do it.

And that is to take – or make – some small bit of time for ourselves. Whether it’s a short meditation, maybe a walk, journal, or doing whatever it is that centers us – in my case this morning, it’s writing a bit on my blog – it’s something to beat back the incessant demands of too much to do. All that stuff to do is not going away, but we can get them in a place where they are more in perspective and we can breathe. Take a deep breath … and let it go.

I’m writing this for me as much as for you who might be reading this … I’m still on the path of learning. And no matter how insistent all these demands are – unless they truly are life and death – we can be in a better space in how we look at it. Though it sometimes gets lost in all the crazy busy-ness, I always remember what Louise Hay says on her tapes – the only thing we can change is our thoughts. We can’t change the car-pooling, the amount of work our job demands, the daily errands, etc., but we can change how we think about them. It takes practice, but the getting too caught up in them is costly to our well-being.

So today I’m writing a little … I’m taking a deep breath … and starting all that stuff.

Have a great day!

Simple Words of Wisdom

No doubt, you find and read books that inspire you, whether you read them on an ongoing basis, re-read them, or discover them for the first time. Same here. One of my favorites, that I fall back into periodically, is Simple Abundance – A Daybook of Comfort and Joy by Sara Ban Breathnach. Having read it from cover to cover when I first received this as a gift many years ago, I now always have it nearby and let it fall open from time to time to see what Ms. Ban Breathnach has to say on a particular occasion.

I thought I would share with you a line of inspiration that she wrote …  and an example of how the seemingly simplest thought can say it all —

“Learning to shrug is the beginning of wisdom.”