Peace of Mind – One of the agreements I made with myself many years ago to help insure my peace of mind is to never watch the “news” on TV before I go to bed. First of all, as you no doubt know, the “news” for quite some time has rarely been more than a reporting of horrible misfortunes that have befallen local people and people around the world. It is a laundry list of murders, robberies, rapes, fires and the like. And that’s just the local “news.” It gets much worse as we look at national and global events.
I have been taught – and believe – that is it harmful to our very souls to bring this pain and negativity into our dream state. We have a choice in this matter. It is not to say we should not be abreast of what is happening in the world, but the degree of how much, what form of media, and the source of information also need to be carefully considered. Still, it is unwise, IMHO, to take any of it in before we go to sleep. I am also of the opinion that any news I truly need to know will come to me.
That said, I was about to turn the TV off last night when I saw that 20/20 was doing an hourlong feature on what recently transpired in Charlottesville. I watched. I shouldn’t have. I awoke with nightmares, shaken, deeply saddened, and angry. That’s no way to wake up. It jarred the first few hours of my day. Lesson learned – again – no “news” anywhere near bedtime. Since the events at Charlottesville and what happened after, I have been, and still am, just horrified at the displays of hatred I witnessed in this country and the lack of its immediate condemnation. Like so many, I am simply at a loss in the face of all of it.
An Unexpected Upside – and then there’s this. There is very little to watch on TV over the summer, but one thing I’ve come to enjoy is a very addictive game show called The Wall. Here’s what I really like about it – it’s good news. It’s always a pair that plays – husband/wife, siblings, friends – to win money, and just about every pair of contestants is playing for money to better the world. A recent husband/wife couple had spent their own money to buy a mobile unit that offers showers to the homeless in their city. They were playing to win money to buy one or more units, at a cost of $40,000 each, to be placed around the city to give more homeless people the opportunity to shower regularly. They hoped to expand their idea across the country. In addition to dignity, they also offered clean clothing with the shower.
As you can imagine, most homeless people would not want to be on TV, but in the video package for this couple, one homeless man, clean and nicely dressed, openly thanked them on camera and said, “Now I can look for a job.” Take that, all you haters. There is love and hope in the world, and on one night a week it’s being brought to you by, of all things … a game show.
Photo Notes: These were taken after a thunderstorm in the early evening. What is most bizarre is that the first two photos were taken within seconds of each other, and seemed to be affected by the angle of my camera. I have no way to explain this. The light, as is sometimes the case after a storm, was particularly eerie, as you can see in the violet tint of a maple, two shrubs and the brown fence in a corner of the yard.
I agree about news before sleep! And though, not a fan of game shows, this one sounds like a great idea! I LOVE the idea of showers–and clean clothes–for the homeless. Thanks for the peaceful and inspiring post. 🙂
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Hi Kitty, Always happy to hear from you, and, of course, you are welcome. It’s not a requirement that contestants raise $$ for charities; they just come on and do it on their own. This last week a woman who only survived because her husband gave her one of his kidneys, now volunteers for and wanted to win money to help an organization helping people in need of organ transplants. I think there’s really a lot of this going on; we just don’t hear about it.
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The photos are beautiful, Jeanne! I agree, negative news or horror movies before bed are not helpful to achieving a good night’s sleep.
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Thanks, Lavinia. I looked out the window and had to grab my camera and run outside asap! to catch that odd light. Sleep well 🙂
Jeanne.
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Awe-inspiring skies Jeanne and I love the way the light has been cast on the plants and fence. It’s these wonderful sights that allow me to ‘escape’ the horror of the news.
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I, too, am glad for distractions from all that is going on. At the moment, I can’t even settle down with choosing the next book I want to read – feel so scattered. Tx for your compliment on the photos – looking through the lens, as you know, can also take us away a bit.
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An interesting post, Jeanne – pictures and all.
I hear you about Charlottesville. It has shaken Canadians too — so many of us have relatives in the US or other close connections.
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How can it not shake people up … even in a neighboring country – it’s frightening. So many people pulling together to stand up against it, but incidents continue. Be glad you’re in Canada. Take care.
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