Pumpkin
2005 – February 26, 2020
Rest in Peace
How do we ever say goodbye to a friend?
I first met Pumpkin when I moved here, about 13-1/2 years ago. He was at least one year old, handsome, leonine. His orange coat, whether thick and luxurious in winter or in a lighter summer length, was always immaculately groomed. He was out most days, and in the next door family’s garage at night. He took no sass from anyone – cat, dog, or human, and ran the neighborhood. I called him The Mayor.
Two fearless creatures – Pumpkin and a young praying mantis.
Whatever had happened to Pumpkin prior to my arrival resulted in his being somewhat aggressive when handled, except for being petted around the head. He showed he cared in other ways, but the expression of affection was strictly on his terms.
With his beautiful coat in its long-haired glory.
Because I worked from home, he and I became better and better buddies, especially after his sidekick, Cloudy, died two years earlier. And in the last 4-5 months, even more so.
He had always come with me to get the mail; slept under or on my car for shade or warmth, depending on the season, at my various doors following the warmth of the sun; and kept me company when I was outdoors. But now he stayed close whenever he was allowed outside. His health began to decline, his quality of life to diminish. Once defensive about being touched, Pumpkin now began to relish the attention.
Pumpkin trusting, relaxed, and sound asleep just outside my office door.
Last Wednesday, my neighbor told me she’d made an appointment to have him put to sleep. This just crushed me, but I was grateful to not only be able to go along, but to hold him in my arms in his last moments on earth. After all these years – and for just this one time – I gave Pumpkin a kiss on the forehead.
Sweet dreams, little one. You were loved.
Still A Dreamer 
I am sorry for your loss, Jeanne. I am glad you got to know this very special kitty, and were able to be with him at the end. Sounds like he shared you and your neighbor, and considered you both to be his people.
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Thank you, Lavinia. I am, too, and he’ll be in my thoughts for a long time to come. In my heart, always.
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Jeanne, it was impossible not to choke up while viewing Pumpkin’s handsome pictures and reading your touching words describing your long, sweet friendship. Having seen the two of you together over the years, I know first-hand how much the both of you meant to each other.
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You really did see us together over the years. It’s hard to imagine him not being here; he was just such a part of my life on an every day basis. And thank you for your kind words.
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Such a beautiful tribute to a beautiful four legged friend! Pumpkin loved you as you loved him. He’s with his friend Cloudy…prancing in all his glory. Bye Pumpkin I was so happy to have met you.😘😥
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I’m glad you met him, too, and thank you. He was one special little boy.
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Pumpkin…what a beautiful cat! I understand how much you and your neighbor will miss him, Jeanne. Life will never be exactly the same but you have such wonderful memories!
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I am going to miss him for quite some time, no doubt. Thank you, Becky.
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What a beauty Pumpkin was. I’m so very sorry for your loss Jeanne.
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Thanks, Andrea. I still can’t believe he’s not sitting at my door or about to come running across the lawn for a snack. In time, I know. But meanwhile …
All going on here pulled me away from much posting, but hoping I can get back in soon. I hope you’re well. Miss my nature walks.
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While looking for your contact info, I came across this post that I somehow missed. Sorry for the loss of your special friend. ❤️
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Thank you, Cheryl. I still see him around from time to time, and miss him. He was a tough cookie, but that he loved me, and I him, was never in question.
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